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DID YOU KNOW.....
The origin of
etiquette.
Then
It was in eighteenth century France,
king Louis XIV used to invite people to his palace
for parties and festivals. His gardener at Versailles was
faced with a serious problem: he could not stop members
of the nobility from trampling about in the delicate areas
of the King's garden. He finally attempted to dissuade their
unwanted behavior by posting signs in French called etiquette
which warned them to "Keep off the Grass, dont
walk on the flowers". When this course of action failed,
the King himself had to issue an official decree that no
one could go beyond the bounds of the signs. Later, the
name "etiquette" was given to a ticket for court
functions that included rules regarding where to stand and
what to do.
Over time the word etiquette has evolved, it
came to mean all the little signs that help us know what
to do in new and different situations. And in even more
time, etiquette came to mean all the things we do to help
us get along better with those we meet in our daily lives.
Etiquette, or manners, guides us through all of our activities.
Moreover, it lets us present ourselves with confidence and
authority in all areas of our professional and personal
life.
Now
In our own society, good
manners were considered an important part of a child's upbringing
until the 1960s. Educational Institutions incorporated social
graces as a crucial aspect of a well-rounded curriculum,
and charm schools specialized in etiquette, poise and proper
manners at the table. The '60s and '70s ushered in a decline
in the popularity of etiquette training. The return to traditional
social values in the '80s and '90s, partly as a reaction
to the previous two decades, has created an increasing awareness
of the importance good manners have in our culture. As our
world becomes a smaller place and our economy becomes increasingly
global in scope, it is becoming increasingly clear how important
good manners are in all cultures.
Etiquette, the little sign is like a tool to help you get
along. And just as with all tools, you need to learn how
to use them. It takes practice, practice, practice
Learn to use the manners in our school and you will have
the tools you need to get through different situations more
easily. Youll know what to expect in so many more
situations, and youll have more confidence for facing
new ones. Take advantage of our classes of good manners
and you will develop a sense of self-respect and self-confidence
that will make your day and the day of everyone around you
just a little bit better.
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